10.12.2008

Protect The Sanctity of Marriage Ammendment!

Okay, I know the Proposition 8 ammendment doesn't specifically say that the "sanctity" of marriage needs to be protected, but in my eyes, this is what it is doing. I have a strong conviction that marriage is something that is ordained of God, and that it was designed to be between a man and a woman, specifically. There are important reasons that men and women should be together, and that each gender contributes certain things to the other gender that are essential and that are designed to create balance and to create a positive influence on children as they raise them--not to mention the fact that those differences also create an environment for each individual in the relationship to flourish emotionally, socially, physically, and spiritually--regardless of how religious of a person you are.
There have been tons of studies done on the differences between men and women, and the contributions that a mother and a father, separately and individually, make on a child's positive development. For example, studies have shown that girls who have a positive relationship with their father (specifically) have less emotional problems, less problems in school, tend to stay out of early sexual relationships (which can be very harmful to that child's emotional and social development), and overall do much better in life.
I think we all know deep down that marriage between a man and a woman is a good thing, and some may say that it is intolerant of me to say that homosexual marriage is not good, but I believe that intolerance can go both ways. If we continue to "tolerate" situations that could make the future of our country's society crumble, then what good will that do? I am not saying that I have a hatred towards homosexuals in any way. I have a lot of acquaintances that I am on good terms with who are homosexual. I just do not tolerate the act of homosexual relations and I do not want to see our society melt--think of the long-term repercussions this could have. Adoption agencies would have to make new rules about who gets to adopt children (and since statistics have shown that most homosexual relationships do not last very long, what kind of a situation are we putting those kids in? I believe I heard that most homosexual people have had over twenty partners in their lifetime.) Not only that, but here in America our birth rate is not high enough to replace our population. Over time, at the rate we are already going at, Americans will be no longer. We will, and already are, have to rely on immigrants to replace our population. If we have more homosexual couples around, where are the children going to come from? There are several reasons why allowing homosexual marriage could take a toll on our society.
Marriage is a sacred bond--designed by our Father in Heaven--with a premortal purpose. Of course it is under attack--there are powers among us that do not want to see the beauty of family life flourish. You cannot create life between two men or two women. And children raised in that kind of environment do not fare as well, as stated earlier. (And for those of you who are Latter-day Saints, you cannot be sealed in the temple to your homosexual spouse, which sealing is a requirement that allows you to obtain the highest degree of glory in the heavens, what we are all down here trying to do--of course the Adversary is trying to stop us from getting there!) and I know for some people this is a very difficult thing to understand, but this goes hand in hand with all the things we are taught from the Holy Bible, that men and women belong together, not in homosexual relationships. I believe there are great reasons for this.
So for those of you who read this, please do not forget to vote for Proposition 8. And please spread the word!

10.05.2008

Two Names You Go By
1. Shayna
2. Bo Bayna

Two Parts of Your Heritage
1. Italian (1/4)
2. Irish

Two Things That Scare You
1. boys
2. bees

Two of Your Everyday Essentials
1. computer
2. going outside

Two Things You Are Wearing Right Now
1. a new pink shirt ;)
2. a skirt that i've had forever

Two of Your Favorite Bands or Musical Artists (at the moment)
1. Jack Johnson
2. anything country

Two Truths
1. I love the gospel and I know it's true
2. I act like i know more than i do most of the time ;) but that doesn't negate number 1!

Two Physical Things That Get You Compliments
1. my eyes
2. legs...haha shantel....

Two of Your Favorite Hobbies
1. facebook. yah, i know....i gotta stop that! either that or shopping. but i dont like spending money so it evens out. haha.
2. exercising or doing things outside.


Two Things You Want Really Badly Right now?
1. a dream job ;)
2. to know what i am supposed to be doing with my life.

1.) Two Places You Want to go on Vacation
1. Disney World
2. hawaii

2.) Two Things You Want to Do Before You Die
1. be a mom
2. teach people something that will change their lives ;)

3.) Two Things You Are Thinking About Now
1. How I should be paying more attention to conference but I am feeling ansy so I'm trying to do lots of things at once.
2. how beautiful of a day it is outside.

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"Honestly"

1.Honestly, where are you now?
at jeremy and jason's apartment watching conference.

2.Honestly, have you ever failed a subject in high school?
nope, never less than a B

3.Honestly, what's on your mind?
a million things like usual ;)

4.Honestly, what is it that you really should be doing right now?
focusing on conference gosh stop distracting me! ;)

5.Honestly, have you brushed your teeth today?
yep

6.Honestly, who are your best friends in the world?
my family.

7.Honestly, who is the hottest person you know?
I do not like the term hot I think it does not reflect someone's worth so I don't really pay attention to that

8.Honestly, are you a good friend?
I try to be! I am sure I have a lot to work on.

9.Honestly, do you think school is important?
absolutely. I miss it already.

10.Honestly, what are your dreams mostly about?
people that I know and that I am close to.

11.Honestly, who/what makes you happy most of the time?
Being understood, knowing I am loved, and making other people happy.

12.Honestly, how happy are you now?
I'm happy.

13.Honestly, what song are you listening to?
Conference.

14.Honestly, who do you want to see at this very moment?
My family :)

15.Honestly, do you have a deadly disease?
not that I know of, i hope not!

16.Honestly, do you hate someone right now?
no. I might be a little frusterated and disappointed but I do not hate anyone.

17.Honestly, who/what do you wanna hug right now?
My family! I know, i know. Sometimes Courtney doesn't believe that. haha.

18.Honestly, are you bored?
Lately, no, but sometimes, yes. :) I try to keep myself busy.

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