OH man...oh man oh man...I"m totally freaking out here...wedding is one month from today and I don't know if its cold feet or what but I'm totally freaking out. I really hope marriage is awesome...How do you married people deal with being together so much? I mean, if Rob and I are together for hours on end, by the end of the day we are exhausted. and I'm totally ready to go home and have my own space and do my own thing...away from him. And after a few days I'm ready to hang out again. But when you are married, you can't exactly do that. Maybe that takes breaking through some walls or something, learning to be totally open with each other so then you don't get emotionally exhausted. I dont know! I'm so scared marriage is gonna be horrible and I'm gonna bawl my eyes out and want to go back home and not be married anymore...and poor Rob will be heartbroken because I'm not that excited giddy wife that you usually expect.....Oh dear!!
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Once married, be sure to still take time for yourself. Have girls night outs (guy night outs for him)so you both still have time doing your own thing. Cuz as much as you love him, if you're together 24/7, you're bound to get on each other's nerves eventually:)And if you are working or going to school--that will be time you're apart as well. And last but not least, enjoy your time together while you can, because once you have kids and schedules get really busy/crazy, you'll be wishing you had more time to spend with just each other:)
Don't let those feet get cold--marriage is awesome! It's an adjustment for sure on many levels, but it's worth it. Just make the best of it and your love for each other will grow stronger. funny how that works, but it does. Good Luck!!!
It's normal to be nervous. But it will be good! And there will be moments at first where you do cry and want to go home. Marriage is a big adjustment. But a wonderful one. Now when I'm visiting my "home" and Mark is here in Cali I cry because I want to go to my real home with him. Try to have a good attitude about everything and think positively. You will create what you are thinking of most.
About spending tons of time together... you will have things to do and so will he. It's different when you live together. You don't feel the need to be in the same room doing the same thing like you do when you're dating. You will fall into a nice routine and you will look forward to seeing him. Chill that brain of yours and start thinking of all the wonderful, amazing things you have to look forward to. I'm excited for you! Marriage is one of the most rewarding things ever!
PS sisters are wonderful. I talk to mine on a daily basis. And now that we are both married, we can relate to each other even more. When/if you feel overwhelmed talk to a sister. They are awesome!
I agree with Elaina, you will fall into your own schedules and routines and you aren't around each other nearly as much as you think you will be. You think living together you'll see each other all the time, but you have work, he has work, and maybe one of you (or both) is in school. I only see my hubby for a few hours every day and he's usually doing homework. And it's amazing how quickly you go from "oh I need some alone time" to "oh I really miss him". Maybe I'm just super clingy, haha, but I love it when 6:00 comes around every night because I know in a few short minutes I will get to see my love! Marriage really is super great and definitely an adjustment, but be willing to make those adjustments. You are a family now and you're both going to have to give stuff up, but it will be totally worth it, promise!
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